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997th Friday Blog Roundup

There may be an impulse to turn “Childless Cat Ladies” into the “Binders Full of Women” of this election, but I thought this take in WashPo (gift link) summed up why we shouldn’t keep repeating a repulsive message we don’t want to be reinforced in people’s heads:

Blackstone adds that her reaction has nothing to do with Vance’s or Harris’s politics: “I don’t make judgments on people’s political decisions, as far as who I’m going to vote for, or who they’re going to vote for,” she says. “But the family system is changing, and to make a comment like that … it’s just not helpful to society. We don’t need people to say, like, ‘You aren’t qualified to be president because you don’t have children.’ I want bonus parents to be respected as a parental figure.”

Years from now, people will hopefully forget Vance’s name and he will go down as the VP candidate from the losing party in the election, but what I don’t want to have happen is have his hateful thoughts lingering in people’s heads. Every human has a direct stake in the country’s future. Don’t forget that at the polls.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

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And now the blogs…

But first, second, helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

  • None… sniff.

Okay, now my choices this week.

Scientist on the Roof has a post about that feeling you get when too many stressful things are happening at once, all depending your energy. She admits: “I was unable to sleep last night – just thinking, thinking, thinking about all the things that I am responsible for, all the tasks I need to be on top of. I was just lying awake and feeling like everything was spinning out of control.” Sending peace of heart.

Lastly, No Kidding in NZ has a post about the concept of “happily ever after” as it exists in romance books. She points out the thing people like about romance books is that the ending must contain a happily ever after moment, but that moment is usually summed up as a traditional marriage and kids. She writes: “Happily Ever After. It looks different for everyone. It’s about time society figured that out.” Three cheers to that.

The roundup to the Roundup: All of us have a stake in the future. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between July 19 – 26) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week. Read the original open thread post here.

4 comments

1 a { 07.26.24 at 8:12 pm }

I was not joining in on the other Vance thing that’s going around today because…I don’t need to know any more about him (especially falsehoods) to cement my opinion. Ugh. Here’s hoping the momentum I am feeling now builds until November.

2 loribeth { 07.26.24 at 11:45 pm }

Great WaPo piece — thank you, Mel!

3 Nicoleandmaggie { 07.27.24 at 7:20 am }

I disagree on the cat woman thing. I cannot speak for unmarried women but my closest unmarried childless friend (with cats) has definitely been happy to reclaim and has been sending me really awesome memes (unmarried cat women for Harris, featuring various awesome women and adorable cats). There’s nothing wrong with being in that demographic and it should be treated as ludicrous to think there is. Also cats are awesome.

4 Mali { 07.30.24 at 7:59 pm }

Cats are awesome. Thanks for including my piece! I don’t have any second helpings. It’s the quietest time of year.

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