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Making Memories

Mari Andrews had a thought toward the middle of a newsletter that gave me pause. She was speaking about a podcast she found, and she said:

“Something that is both comforting and eerie to me is that you can’t choose your memories. You can ‘make memories,’ sure, but you really have no control over whether you end up remembering them or not.”

So you can do everything to make a moment memorable. You can plan out elaborate trips or plot out what you’re going to say or host an event, and in the end, there is nothing you can do to turn it into a memory for yourself, and even less you can do to turn it into a memory for someone else. I know my parents must have spent hours planning things for me, and then I forget all those things I did as a child, and I remember a random conversation with my mother while I watched her dry her hair.

It may help you to remember that whatever you do this upcoming holiday season, there is no guarantee anyone will remember any of it soon after the event. Maybe that takes some pressure off.

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