#Microblog Monday 513: Interesting Advice
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A recent Carolyn Hax column made me pause, and I was curious what you thought. That, by the way, is a gift link.
The situation: a woman laments two friends who have changed profoundly — both in actuality and expressed through their postings online. Carolyn’s advice is to choose a different medium to connect with them if they want the person in their life but don’t want to be distressed by what they post. “Connect using the least conspiracy-, peculiarity- and lunacy-friendly communications medium.”
Yes, there is always the choice to remove someone from your life, but there are many reasons why someone would not. The question asker wanted to know how to keep these people in their life and minimize their emotional impact, which sounds a bit impossible, though Carolyn’s advice certainly feels like maybe the only possible path forward.
What do you think of her advice?
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2 comments
Hmmmm. I think trying letter-writing is a great idea, but I feel like in this social-media obsessed world, it’s just. too. much. effort. for some. There are literally people who if I am not engaging on social media (which for me is pretty much just facebook), they are poof! gone. I have lost friends because we grew apart and spending time left me feeling depleted, lonely in a group of people, and unseen, but that is very different from “our ideologies are very different now.” I think there’s going to be a lot of this in the months to come. I do agree though that no one changes their mind on social media and it is way too easy to throw stuff out there that maybe you wouldn’t say to someone’s face. It feels like a powder keg in the best of times, but now? Blecccchhhhh. I have to think on this one!
I’m for ghosting people who disappoint me. I don’t need the stress of worrying about treading lightly on certain topics.
However, I hate that Bezos makes you give up your email address to read a gift article, so I don’t click on WaPo links any more. I have no idea what Hax said, but I often agree with her takes. She’s obviously finding solutions for someone who wants one. I would probably just choose a different path.